Someone in your group chat just suggested Topgolf. Someone else countered with axe throwing. Now you are scrolling through two different websites trying to figure out which one costs less, which one is more fun for 8 people, and which one will not leave half your group bored.
Both activities occupy the same "let's do something besides dinner" category. Both serve drinks. Both require zero experience. And both have exploded in popularity over the last decade -- Topgolf operates roughly 100 US locations and counting, while the axe throwing industry has grown to over 360 venues nationwide with a market size north of $335 million.
But the experiences are not interchangeable, and the right choice depends entirely on your group, your budget, and what kind of night you are after.
The Money Question
This is where most people start, so here it is straight:
| Scenario | Axe Throwing | Topgolf |
|---|---|---|
| Couple (1 hour) | $50-80 total | $27-90 for bay + food/drinks |
| Group of 4 (1 hour) | $100-160 total | $27-90 for bay (split 4 ways = $7-23/person) |
| Group of 6 (1 hour) | $150-270 total | $27-90 for bay (split 6 ways = $5-15/person) |
| Saturday night, 6 people, 2 hours | $300-540 | $120-180 for bays + food/drinks |
The pricing dynamics: Axe throwing charges per person -- typically $25 to $45 per person per hour. Topgolf charges per bay per hour, and each bay holds up to 6 players. On a Saturday night, a Topgolf bay runs $55-90 per hour. Split among six people, that is $9-15 per person per hour for the bay alone. Add food and drinks (which are more expensive than average restaurant pricing), and a two-hour Topgolf visit for six might run $250-400 total.
The math flips depending on group size. For a couple, axe throwing is often cheaper -- $50-80 total versus a Topgolf bay that costs $55-90 even with just two players. For a full bay of six, Topgolf's per-person cost drops dramatically while axe throwing stays fixed per head.
The hidden costs: Topgolf charges a one-time $5 membership fee for new players, and 15-20% tip for your bay host is expected. Axe throwing venues generally include everything in the session price. Some axe venues are BYOB, which can slash the drink bill. For a detailed breakdown of axe throwing pricing, see our cost guide.
Budget pick: Topgolf for groups of 4-6 splitting a bay. Axe throwing for couples or groups of 2-3.
The Social Dynamics
This is where the two activities diverge most sharply, and it matters more than most people expect.
Axe throwing is a shared-lane sport. Your group clusters around one or two lanes. You throw one at a time while everyone watches. The first time someone sticks an axe, the group erupts. The first bullseye gets a louder reaction. By round three, natural rivalries form, trash talk escalates, and the entire session has a rhythm of tension, release, and reaction. You are physically together, facing each other, talking between throws.
Topgolf is a parallel activity. Each person takes turns hitting balls from a shared bay, which is good. But the focus is outward -- everyone is watching the ball flight and the target, not each other. Between shots, conversation flows more easily than during a go-kart race, but the emotional peaks are individual (your personal great shot) rather than communal. The bay format works well for hanging out, but the activity itself does not generate the same collective energy that axe throwing's one-at-a-time format produces.
For corporate team building where the goal is getting people to interact -- especially colleagues who do not know each other well -- axe throwing's format is structurally better. The coached instruction creates a shared starting point, and the competitive rounds build camaraderie faster than taking turns swinging a golf club.
For casual hangouts where the activity is secondary to conversation, Topgolf's relaxed bay format with food and drinks delivered to your seat might be the better fit.
The Skill Curve
Axe throwing: Most people stick their first axe within 10-15 minutes. A coach teaches you the basic one-hand and two-hand techniques, corrects your distance from the target, and within a few throws you are producing satisfying thunks. The skill ceiling is high -- hitting bullseyes consistently, mastering the clutch throw (a harder overhead technique worth extra points), competing in leagues -- but the floor is accessible. Your non-athletic friend will have fun.
Topgolf: Swing a club, watch the ball fly toward a target. The technology does the scoring. If you have ever hit a golf ball at a driving range, you know the basics. If you have not, the learning curve is gentle -- miss the target entirely, adjust, try again. There is no coach (unless you book a lesson separately), but the intuitive nature of "hit ball at big target" means most people produce results quickly.
Both activities are genuinely beginner-friendly. Neither requires athleticism. The difference is that axe throwing includes coaching as a standard part of every session, while Topgolf relies on the simplicity of the activity itself. For groups with people who are anxious about looking foolish (common in corporate outings), axe throwing's structured coaching provides a safety net that Topgolf does not.
Food and Drinks
Topgolf wins here, and it is not close. Every Topgolf location has a full restaurant and bar with a chef-driven menu -- burgers, flatbreads, wings, nachos, cocktails, local craft beers, and more. Food and drinks are delivered to your bay by a dedicated host. The dining experience is part of the value proposition. A Topgolf visit can replace dinner and entertainment in a single stop.
Axe throwing venues vary wildly. Some have a full bar (axe throwing bars are increasingly common). Some serve beer and wine only. Some are BYOB. Very few have full kitchens. At most venues, the expectation is that you will eat before or after, not during. Urban Axes locations tend to have good bar programs, and some venues like Full Throttle in Louisville integrate bourbon bars into the space. But the industry standard is "bar snacks at best."
If food and drink quality matter for your outing, Topgolf delivers a more complete package. If you prefer to separate the activity from the meal -- throw axes first, then hit a restaurant -- axe throwing's BYOB and bar options keep the cost down while the neighborhood restaurant handles the food.
The Atmosphere
Topgolf: Massive multi-story buildings, climate-controlled open-air bays, LED-lit targets, pumping music, sports on big screens, neon branding. The vibe is "sports bar meets amusement park." It is energetic, loud, and visually impressive. At night, the lit-up outfield creates an almost theatrical backdrop.
Axe throwing: Industrial-rustic spaces with exposed brick, raw wood, and the satisfying thud of steel meeting timber. Venues range from scrappy to polished, but the common thread is intimacy -- even a busy venue feels more contained than a Topgolf location. The atmosphere runs closer to "craft brewery" than "entertainment complex." For people who prefer smaller, more personal environments, this is a significant advantage.
Top-Rated Venues
Explore some of the highest-rated axe throwing venues across the country.
49 E Midland Ave, Paramus, NJ 7652
672 Bloomfield Ave, Bloomfield, NJ 7003
1020 W 8th Ave, King of Prussia, PA 19406
419 NJ-34, Matawan, NJ 7747
Venue Photos
Bury the Hatchet Paramus - Axe Throwing
Paramus, New Jersey
Bury The Hatchet Bloomfield - Axe Throwing
Bloomfield, New Jersey
Bury The Hatchet King Of Prussia - Axe Throwing
King of Prussia, Pennsylvania
Bury The Hatchet Old Bridge - Axe Throwing
Matawan, New Jersey
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Date night: Axe throwing. The intimacy of a shared lane, the coached instruction that gives you something to do besides stare at each other over dinner, and the "we did something interesting" factor that makes the evening memorable. Topgolf works for dates too, but the massive venue and loud environment are less conducive to connection. Read our date night guide for more.
Corporate event (20+ people): Topgolf. The bay system scales effortlessly, the full catering and A/V capabilities handle large groups, and the event coordination team manages logistics. Axe throwing works brilliantly for groups of 10-30 but requires more coordination (multiple lanes, scheduling) for larger groups.
Birthday party: Depends on the age. Topgolf offers dedicated party packages for kids and adults. Axe throwing (typically ages 10-14+ depending on the venue) works better for adult birthday parties that want something edgy and Instagram-worthy. The "I threw axes for my birthday" story beats "I went to Topgolf" in social currency.
Bachelor or bachelorette party: Axe throwing. The competitive format, the visceral satisfaction, the photo opportunities with hatchets, and the fact that it pairs well with bar-hopping afterward make it the better pre-party activity. Our bachelor/bachelorette guide covers planning details.
Rainy Saturday with no plan: Topgolf. The covered bays, full restaurant, and multi-hour bay rental make it a complete rainy-day destination. Axe throwing sessions are typically 60-90 minutes, which leaves you needing another activity for the rest of the afternoon.
First time doing something new: Dead even. Both are designed for complete beginners. Both have near-zero injury risk. Both generate that "I can't believe I just did that" feeling. Your choice depends on whether "I threw an axe" or "I hit a golf ball 200 yards" sounds more exciting to tell people about.
The Wait Time Problem
One practical consideration that rarely makes it into comparison articles: Topgolf's wait times on weekends can be brutal. At popular locations, walk-in waits of 1-3 hours on Friday and Saturday nights are common. Reservations help but are not available at all locations for all times. If your group shows up without a reservation on a Saturday at 7 PM, you might be waiting longer than your actual session.
Axe throwing venues generally have shorter wait times, partly because sessions are scheduled and partly because venues are smaller with more predictable capacity. Most venues strongly encourage reservations, and walk-in availability varies, but the pre-booked session model means you show up at your time and start throwing.
Pro tip: Both activities benefit from off-peak timing. Tuesday through Thursday evenings are less crowded and often cheaper at both Topgolf (off-peak bay rates) and axe throwing venues (some offer weeknight discounts). Topgolf runs half-price bays on Tuesdays at many locations.
The Verdict
There is no universal winner. The right choice depends on three things:
- Group size. 2-3 people? Axe throwing is cheaper and more intimate. 5-6 people? Topgolf's per-person cost drops and the bay format works well. 20+? Topgolf scales better.
- What you want to feel. Axe throwing delivers a primal, hands-on rush -- you are throwing sharp steel at a wooden target. Topgolf delivers a relaxed, social atmosphere with a side of competitive golf. One is adrenaline you create; the other is entertainment you consume.
- How important food and drink are. If you want activity + dinner in one venue, Topgolf. If you want the activity to be the event and dinner to be separate, axe throwing gives you more flexibility and usually a lower total cost.
The smart move for groups that cannot decide: do both on different weekends. Start with axe throwing (shorter commitment, lower cost, higher novelty), and save Topgolf for a larger group outing where the bay-splitting economics and full-service dining make the most sense.
Frequently Asked Questions
Is axe throwing safer than Topgolf?
Both are very safe for commercial recreational settings. Axe throwing venues have enclosed lanes, mandatory safety briefings, and coaches supervising every throw. Topgolf has occasional minor injuries from golf swings and ball ricochets, but serious incidents are extremely rare at both. See our safety guide.
Can kids do both?
Topgolf has no age minimum and offers junior clubs. Axe throwing venues typically require ages 10-14+, and some require 18+ for kids and teens. Check the specific venue's policy before booking.
Which is better for someone who does not like sports?
Axe throwing. The coaching eliminates the "I do not know what I am doing" anxiety, the lane format means only your small group sees your throws, and the skill barrier is lower -- sticking an axe requires technique, not athleticism. Topgolf's golf-adjacent nature can feel intimidating to non-sports people even though no experience is needed.
Can you do both in one day?
Some entertainment complexes house both activities. Several venues around the country combine axe throwing with golf simulators or driving ranges. But even without a combo venue, a morning Topgolf session followed by an evening axe throwing session makes for a solid activity-packed day.
Which has better photo ops?
Axe throwing, by a wide margin. A photo of you mid-throw with a hatchet is inherently more dramatic than a photo of you swinging a golf club. The industrial backgrounds, the axes stuck in targets, the competitive scoring displays -- axe throwing venues are designed for the content that ends up on Instagram.
Find an axe throwing venue near you and see how it compares to your last Topgolf visit.